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Psychological/Emotional

Why Do I Do This To Myself?

by Ruby on September 23, 2010

Meditation has never been easy or comfortable for me. I’m not one of those folks who taste the delight of peace and stillness in meditation unless I’m on a retreat, and even then it takes a fairly long time for me to get there, and it tends to be brief and fleeting. Most of my [...]

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Anna wrote, “I believe that meditation [has] a lot of benefits, now do you think it also has disadvantages?”  I decided to answer her as a post because I think she asked a fascinating question. According to Encarta Dictionary (2005), synonyms for “disadvantage” include: difficulty, drawback, shortcoming, weakness, hindrance, handicap, detriment, minus, demerit, inconvenience  At [...]

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MORE ON GRATITUDE

by Cheryl on September 16, 2010

Begin your meditation by spending a moment noticing still water. See it. Or feel it. Or “hear” it. You might only experience still water for 1 second. Notice that. Then spend a few moments expressing gratitude. Refresh this practice by feeling grateful for all the things you take for granted. Clean water out of the [...]

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When You Close Your Eyes

by Tony on August 26, 2010

There are many different kinds of meditation practices. When we sit down and close our eyes, we could be doing any number of things, from visualizing a peaceful scene, to working on concentrating the mind, to cultivating a particular attitude of mind by repeating suggestive phrases. When we bring our attention to the sensations of [...]

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SLEEPING AND WORRYING

by Ruby on August 19, 2010

When I first began meditating, I found myself falling asleep a lot. Part of the problem (because I saw it as a problem) was meditating in the evenings. After the stress of a long work day, my mind seized on the opportunity to get quiet by going to sleep. Not unusual in our culture, as [...]

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AN “ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE”

by Cheryl on August 12, 2010

Begin your period of meditation with at least a minute of gratitude. This “attitude of gratitude” has the effect of softening the heart and relaxing the body—just the qualities we want to practice in meditation. Brother David Steindl-Rast differentiates between thankfulness and gratefulness. Thankfulness depends on self and other, receiver and giver. I’m thanking someone [...]

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FINDING THE PERFECT POSTURE

by Ruby on August 5, 2010

As part of meditation, we sometimes experience unpleasant physical sensations, most commonly in the knees, back or hips. When I started meditating, I was convinced the unpleasant sensations were happening because I hadn’t found the right posture or sitting position. I have heard teachers say many times through the years that physical discomfort will likely [...]

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As I wrote in my previous post, when practicing mindfulness, you remain in the present moment, curious about and open to the thoughts, feelings, and surroundings just as they are…rejecting nothing, and clinging to nothing. You hold a space of equanimity.  And this is just what you do when you sit in meditation…except you don’t [...]

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For me, meditation has always had a somewhat exotic flavor to it. When I first encountered a statue of the Buddha in a Japanese tea garden as a child, my mother told me he was contemplating his navel. Because I didn’t see what there was of interest to contemplate about a navel, I had no [...]

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Sitting meditation harnesses your attention by using a single focus such as your breath, images (visualizations), sounds (mantra), or an open awareness of what is arising moment by moment which is called mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness meditation uses the breath as an anchor while attending to the myriad activities occurring non-stop within the body, mind, and [...]

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